So here is a list of my faves. Most are in SoCal.
My all time favorite-I-want-to-be-this-girl blog: http://www.jasminestarblog.com/
Close runner-ups: http://www.jessicaclaire.net/, http://www.josevillablog.com/, www.f8studio.com/blog, http://www.dougmiranda.net/
Not always weddings - but really awesome photojournalism: http://bobbyearle.blogspot.com/
An amalgamation of other wedding photographers: http://greylikesweddings.wordpress.com/
There are a few others - but those are the must-sees.
Brad asked me not too long ago what I would do if money was no object. Wedding photography. THIS kind of wedding photography. Not the "ok, I need the mother of the bride, the sister of the groom and 5 ushers to line up shortest in front, tallest in back" kind of photographer.